“But I am sure I have always thought of Christmas time, when it has come round… as a good time; a kind, forgiving, charitable, pleasant time; the only time I know of, in the long calendar of the year, when men and women seem by one consent to open their shut-up hearts freely, and to think of people below them as if they really were fellow-passengers to the grave, and not another race of creatures bound on other journeys.”
– A Christmas Carol, Charles Dickens
What does Advent mean to you? For a lot of people, Advent is a time for preparation. So far so good! But preparation for what exactly? That depends entirely on what you think of Christmas. Is Christmas the day for the fat man in the red suit and white beard who comes bearing multitudes of gifts? Or is it for the King born in a manger, who brought with him gifts of an entirely different sort?
We live in a culture of instant gratification. We avoid queues at any cost; food that isn’t fast isn’t worth waiting for; the latest iPhone must be bought the day it comes out, and your favourite TV show is best binge-watched. It’s fair to say that for most of us, waiting is seen as a waste of our time and energy.
Waiting is exactly what we’re asked to do during the four weeks of Advent, and the thing about waiting is that what we do while we wait is just as important as what it is we’re waiting for. So what are we doing to prepare for Christmas? We might be caught up in preparing the food, preparing our homes for Christmas guests, finishing the Christmas shopping, wrapping the many presents we’ve bought…
But Advent isn’t a time for feeling “Christmassy”. It’s not about waiting for the Coca Cola advert to tell us that “holidays are coming” so we can start listening to Christmas music and put up our decorations. Yes, Advent is a time of anticipation for Christmas, but not for sleigh bells, snow and presents – it’s anticipation for the birth of the King.
The joy of the Incarnation
To prepare properly during Advent, we need to remember what we’re celebrating at Christmas. It’s a mystery completely unique to Christianity: the Incarnation of God. God became man! He lowered himself to be one of us! How incredible is that?! But he didn’t stop there, as St Paul tells us:
Christ Jesus, who, though he was in the form of God,
did not regard equality with God
as something to be exploited,
but emptied himself,
taking the form of a slave,
being born in human likeness.
And being found in human form,
he humbled himself
and became obedient to the point of death—
even death on a cross.
– Philippians 2:6-8
How much more amazing is this than the secular version of Christmas as a sort of “universal birthday”? In fact, the powerful testament of a God born in a manger draws such interest that his story is still being told and sung about 2000 years on. It’s a powerful event when you don’t have to be Christian to sing songs about his birth, and you don’t have to practice any sort of religion to attend Mass on Christmas Day. Even the concept of Santa – that you are rewarded for being good – isn’t miles away from Christianity, despite the materialistic form it has taken. It’s the one time of year when it’s popular to think of others.
So if Advent is a build up to a celebration of this incredible event, preparing for it should be less about preparing presents and more about preparing our hearts. What are we doing to be ready for the arrival of our King? Will he find us asleep (Matthew 25:1-13) or will he find our hearts open, waiting for him? While Lent is traditionally associated with fasting, Advent too is a time for penance and atoning for our sins. It’s a great time to get to Confession, especially if we haven’t been in a while. We can also prepare ourselves by praying more fervently. Finally, we should always remember the joy of what it is to come and look towards it with great happiness and anticipation.
The world had so many expectations from the Messiah, and 2000 years later we are still piling up these expectations. But what about what he can expect from us? We ask so much of him, but what can we give him in return? All we can do, all we can ever give him, is ourselves, and that is all he would ever ask of us.
“What can I give Him,
Poor as I am?
If I were a shepherd
I would bring a lamb;
If I were a wise man
I would do my part;
Yet what I can, I give Him –
Give my heart”
– In the Bleak Midwinter, Christina Rossetti
This blog post was originally published on ReluctantEvangelist.com. Reposted with permission.